Affair Recovery - Isolation

Updated: Sep 20, 2019

Do you feel like you are the only person in the world going through the adultery nightmare that you are living in?

I felt the same way, for two LONG years! My world was turned upside down by my husband's affairs and there was no one to tell me I would survive, because they survived. In fact, everyone in my world was married. I was very isolated. 

Isolation, in turn, made my feelings of low self-worth, shame, loneliness, depression, and anxiety skyrocket. To make matters worse, several of my close friends were involved with my husband, leaving me untrusting of everyone, even my most loyal and loving friends. 

I was alone. 

The panic attacks got worse and I knew that I would never survive. I didn't ask for this. Shoot, I was playing by the marriage rules.

Grief is hard, to put it mildly. There is power in sharing our stories, we help ourselves process and we help others realize that they are not alone. So for tonight's assignment, I want you to write down your story. Feel all of your feelings. Write, express, sob, repeat.

I'll never forget the moment I sat across from her. We were meeting for lunch and didn't really know each other, all we shared was a common experience. The second I sat in that cold chair I started to cry, because she knew. She had been in my shoes and she was living proof that I was going to make it. 

We never know the impact we can have on someone else so I encourage you to not only write out your story for your own healing, but share it here for others. You'll be amazed at how we can help each other.

Do you struggle with any of these issues?

✔️Terrifying Anxiety

✔️Uncontrollable Fear

✔️Racing and Obsessive Thoughts

✔️Painful Flashbacks

✔️Unhealthy Boundaries

✔️Utter Loneliness 

✔️Lack of Healing

✔️PTSD from their Affair

✔️Crippling Depression

✔️Seemingly Never-Ending Grief

Don't worry, you DO have the strength to heal from this!

Our recommendation? Find meaningful guidance, community with others going through the same trauma, and healing!

We know how hard it is to heal after being cheated on and believe that no one deserves to live a broken life. 

With After the Affair you receive access to:

  • An affair recovery video session once a week for 8 weeks, guiding you through the healing process required after their affair.

  • Watch sessions around your schedule and as often as you would like.

  • Weekly healing exercises to guide you through your pain

  • You receive unlimited access to our amazing support group on Facebook

Begin your path towards healing and becoming stronger, braver and more whole than ever before!

Click here to start healing, because no one deserves to live life broken --->