"He left my kids and I for her. I felt... worthless. I needed help. After the Affair was just what I needed. The advice and perspective I got changed how I feel about myself and I am healing!"
- S Anderson
What you get with After the Affair
Affair recovery video sessions once a week for 8 weeks, guiding you through the healing process required after their affair.
Weekly affair healing exercises to guide you through your pain
Practical tips and tricks to survive triggers and anxiety
Unlimited access to watch sessions around your schedule and as often as needed.
Full access to our amazing affair recovery support group on Facebook
A path towards healing and becoming stronger, braver and more whole than ever before!
8 WEEKLY RECOVERY SESSIONS
8 WEEKLY RECOVERY SESSIONS AND HEALING ACTIVITIES
WATCH EMAILED SESSIONS WHEN YOUR SCHEDULE ALLOWS AND AS OFTEN AS NEEDED
I learned about boundaries and how to use them to protect myself & my kids. This has made me feel safer & more in control of my life. I like my kids learning from mom how to be healthy no matter what.
I cannot believe how much I have changed in 8 weeks!!! I was thinking about her affair non-stop and how I caused it. Now I know it was not my fault and have practical ways to handle my feelings.
Cannot express how thankful I am to have been a part of this. I am 52 and starting over. I went from feeling like my life was over to feeling like my life is just beginning.
The series has truly helped me a lot. I'm writing down different things that pop into my head. Such as over the past 3 years, why I put up with his excuse of sex addiction and why I feel so little for myself?
Meet Therapist Julia Kristina
EDUCATION: Master's Degree in Counselling Psychology from Adler University
HER STORY: Julia has been working in the mental health field for 12 years. Julia works as a mindset and mental wellness coach, and international speaker about how to break through the emotional crap that holds us back. Her perspective is all about how your body and thoughts work together, giving you deep insight into what is going on with you during the trauma of their cheating.
Meet Therapist Melo Garcia
EDUCATION: Master's Degree in Counseling and Behavioral Science from the University of San Diego
HER STORY: In 2015 Melo lost both of her parents and her daughter, Chloe, all while facing an unexpected divorce after the discovery of infidelity. She understands grief and loss well and gives practical, everyday advice on how to survive after being cheated on.
I found out in January my husband of 21 years had been having an affair with a co-worker for a year and a half.
Obviously, I was floored. I immediately went and bought 3 self-help books on this topic and found all of them disappointing and made me angry. I love what you say that this is not my fault and I did not ask for this. The other materials I read were all about, find your role in the affair, etc and I found that so offensive. I did not make any of those choices (I followed the marriage rules - didn't you say that???). That has been the most freeing thing for me with your program.
Here are some other really big things for me:
I will not share myself or my marriage with others.
Show me long-standing change
Get curious why I get triggered.
Nothing is worth losing my peace
How could he have another life I didn't know about. Explains why I doubt everything.
What I believed vs. the truth exercise
I want you to know you have something to say to people like me and we want to hear it. You are doing life-changing work.
xoxo - S.S.